How to Give Thanks

I recently wrote about the need to give thanks in all circumstances (read that post here).

We saw from 1 Thessalonians 5:18 how we are to give thanks in all situations, whether good or bad, big or small.

The question, then, is:

“What does it mean to give thanks, and how do you do it?”

To give thanks means just what it says, to say thank you from a feeling of appreciation for what someone has done.

When we tell God thank you, it’s our way of letting Him know we see and appreciate Him and how He is working in our lives.

We are to be thankful for His sacrifice of Jesus, for the salvation it offers, and that this gift has provided a way for us to be rescued from ourselves and our sins.

We are to:

“give thanks to God because He is good and His love endures forever.” Psalm 107:1 (NIV)

Not only is the above verse true, it’s so important that it or a verse very similar to it is repeated in the Scriptures several times!

If you’re not sure how to go about doing it, you can follow these steps to say thank you to God:

1-Humble your heart and realize that God does deserve to be thanked for what He has done, is doing, and will do.

2-From the deepest part of you, look to God and at what He has done for you personally.

3-Pick one thing and say something along the lines of, “God, thank you for _____,” and tell Him what it is you are thankful for. You can do it silently or out loud, whichever you are more comfortable with.

It’s that simple.

If you don’t know what to start with, try thanking Him for any one of these:

You have a job, a place to stay, a vehicle, a meal to eat today, a sibling you are close to, $3 in your pocket. You saw a bird outside, it rained, it didn’t rain, the clouds are out, the sun is out, you have a pair of shoes to wear, you have water to bathe in at home. You got to go to lunch with a friend, you got to visit with your grandparent, you went on a trip, you got to stay home and rest.

You get the idea.

Don’t worry if you aren’t good at it. Don’t worry if it feels odd.

Just pick something and try it. The more you do it, the easier it will become.

The more you do this, the more you will begin to see just how much He is working in your life and all around you.

You might even consider keeping a journal of the things you are thankful for. This will give you a chance to look back at the good things going on in your life so that when you are down you can be reminded of just how faithful and generous God really is.

The important thing is to daily tell God how thankful you are and how much you appreciate Him.

So, tell me, what are you thankful for today?

 

For further reading
1 Thessalonians 5:18 Give thanks in all circumstances
Psalm 107:1 Give thanks to the Lord
Psalm 136:1 Give thanks to the Lord
Psalm 136:3 Give thanks to the Lord

 

 

Praying Scriptures

I like to include Scriptures in my prayers during my personal prayer time.

I find it helps me to better understand the meaning of the verse.

It also helps me apply and understand it in a very personal way. It’s as if it makes it come more alive in my life.

Another thing it does is remind me of the truth of what God has promised.

When I pray back a Scripture to Him, I am reminding myself that I can trust God and rely on what He has said.

I am also asking Him to keep that particular promise.

It is not that He can’t be trusted to keep His promises, or that if I don’t specifically pray that verse it won’t happen.

It’s that by repeating the promise and asking Him to fulfill it, I am recognizing that as the Creator of the Universe and all that is in it, God alone is the One who can make it happen.

By repeating them, I am acknowledging God’s authority and superiority as I submit my life and plans to Him.

So, how do you do that?

How do you pray the Scriptures?

It’s very easy.

1-Choose the Scripture you want to pray.

2-Personalize it to make it coming from you to God, if necessary. Not all verses need this.

3-Add it in to your prayer and speak it to God, either silently or aloud.

 

Here’s an example.

You, God, are my God,
earnestly I seek You;
I thirst for You,
my whole being longs for You,
in a dry and parched land
where there is no water.  Psalm 63:1 (NIV)

For this one, you can either just repeat it as it’s written, or else you can paraphrase it and say,

“You’re my God,
I am earnestly* seeking You;
I’m thirsty for You,
All of me wants Your presence,
in a dry and parched** land
where there is no water***.”

 

Now, let’s look at one I would personalize:

Truly my soul finds rest in God;
    my salvation comes from Him.
Truly He is my rock and my salvation;
    He is my fortress, I will never be shaken. Psalm 62:1-2 (NIV)

 

For this one, I might pray:

My soul really does find rest in You, God;
I know my salvation comes from You.
2 You really are my rock and my salvation;
Because you are my fortress I will never be shaken.

In this paraphrase, I am saying the same thing, but I am making it personal and applying it to my life and how it affects me personally.

Can you see how the subtle changes keep the truth of the verse, but better show what the Scriptures are saying to me personally, and how they actually affect and apply to me?

To me, it makes them come alive and shows me just who God is and how He thinks about things.

This in turn causes me to better understand God and want to draw closer to Him and build a stronger relationship with Him.

 

Remember, praying Scriptures isn’t some mysterious thing.

It’s an opportunity to humbly go to God and let Him know I am reading His word and I’m seeking to communicate with Him about things He has said in His book, the Bible.

 

I encourage you to try praying a verse of Scripture in your next quiet time. You might be surprised at just how much it draws you closer to Him!

Let me know how it goes. I’d really like to hear about your experience!

 

*earnestly means sincerely, intensely, with great seriousness – you can pray these words instead of earnestly if that is better for you

**parched means drought-stricken, desert-like

***the water in this instance is referring to God’s Spirit and presence.

 

 

Thanking God In the Bad Times

As Christians, we are called to be thankful to God.

It’s not that hard to thank Him for the good things that happen to us, but what about when bad things happen?

Do we thank Him then? Should we?

Look at 1 Thessalonians 5:18

“give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (NIV)

It says we are to give thanks in ALL circumstances.

Not just in the good ones. In the bad ones, too.

That can be hard!

How do we thank God in a situation where a loved one is ill?

Or, a relative is seriously injured in an accident? What if they die?

What if a partner leaves without warning?

Do we thank God in these situations?

The answer is yes, we do. In all of them.

No matter the circumstance or situation, there is always something to thank God for. Otherwise, He wouldn’t have told us to.

We can thank Him that they only broke one arm, not both. We can thank Him the illness isn’t worse. We can thank Him for the friends who step up to support and encourage us.

Even if the worst case scenario happens, there are still things we can thank God for.

We can thank Him for the privilege of having known that person and having them in our lives.

We can thank Him for how He blessed our time together.

We can thank God for being there for us; for His presence in our lives as He comforts and strengthens us to walk through this season of heartache.

We can thank God for knowing what is the best outcome for the situation, even when we don’t understand or agree with that outcome.

We can thank God for working in our lives, even when we can’t or won’t see it.

It may seem impossible at first, but if we will focus on God’s goodness and trust that as Creator of the Universe and Author and Finisher of our faith God knows best as He is working all things together, we will begin to see where He is working in the situation.

Then, we can thank Him for those specific things. This will open our eyes to even more things He is doing. More things to thank Him for.

The point is we are supposed to turn our hearts and eyes to God and to begin to thank Him for the good things in our lives despite this hard situation we are dealing with as we maintain our focus on Him and not on the things happening to and/or around us.

Will it be easy? Not necessarily. But as we begin to thank Him for His goodness and who He is, our heart will begin to soften and we will begin to feel His presence. This will give us peace and strength that will sustain us through the hard season.

Will it be painful? Often. But, out of that pain will come healing, growth, and learning.

It will be a chance to grow closer to Christ as we see God for who He truly is and begin to better understand that He really is both working in our lives and interested in comforting and healing us.

It is this seeing His presence and work in our lives and knowing He cares about each one of us that will make it so much easier to give thanks for all that He is doing for us, both in good seasons and bad.

 

What about you? Are you giving thanks to God in the season you’re in?

 

 

Further Reading

Hebrews 12:2 Jesus is the author and finisher of our faith
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Give thanks in all circumstances
Romans 8:28 All things work for good

 

Isaiah 41:10

Someone in my life occasionally makes my life difficult for no apparent reason.

I’m not sure why but nothing I do ever pleases them.

To make matters worse, for a lot of reasons it is not someone I can just walk away from.

The last few days have been some of those days when they made things tough.

Yesterday was especially stressful.

I spent an entire day upset, almost to the point of tears.

I kept asking God, “Why is this happening?”, and, “Why won’t You do something?”.

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Feeling Anchored

Recently I went through a struggle concerning feeling anchored.

My brother died unexpectedly and I had to go 600+ miles away to attend his service and take care of the family stuff that went with it.

I’d strongly felt God’s presence during the trip, but once I got home and reality set in I started to feel like I was floating. I felt aimless. Like I wasn’t anchored to anything. Just in a bit of limbo.

That is not a very good feeling.

I prayed and prayed and asked the Lord to help me feel more/better connected to Him (God). Then I got in my Bible and started looking at Scripture.

He led me to Hebrews 6.

In it the author is talking about the absolute certainty of God’s promises to us.

Verse 19 said it best-

We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, (NIV)

Did you catch that?

Our hope in God’s promises is an anchor.

It’s our belief that God is who He says He is and that He’ll do what He says He will do that gives us hope and faith. It’s what binds us to Him.

When we hold on to this hope in Him we can live our lives according to His promises, knowing they are waiting for us both here and in the next life.

This is what will keep us anchored to Him. Unmovable. Unshakable. Secure.

Reminding myself that I do trust God, I have seen Him prove Himself trustworthy, and that He will do what He says He will do, made me feel better. It gave me peace and a sense of calm.

It helped me “right” myself as I balanced back out and felt anchored again.

I can tell you first hand, this was exactly what I needed.

I needed to be reminded that God is there for me no matter the circumstance, no matter the situation.

He is Who He said He is, and He will do exactly what He said he would do.

I am so thankful that God’s promises are true and I can trust Him no matter what!

 

For further reading: Hebrews 11

 

This Thing I Do

I was talking to my good friend, MHR, about this blog.

She’s the first person I’ve shown it to and I was nervous.

Would she like it?

Would she think it’s too cheesy?

Is it offensive?

Is it total garbage?

I was relieved to learn she likes it and plans to keep reading it!

She had a lot of good things to say. Encouraging things.

Her good words have inspired me to try harder. To write more.

She even inspired me to finish the books I’m writing.

Yes, I am going to finish them. Every. Single. One. Of. Them. And write others, too! (Thanks for the encouragement MHR!)

I’m very thankful she was so encouraging to me and appreciate her friendship so much.

Her support makes it easier for me to keep doing this blog.

I do it for 2 reasons:

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Saul of Tarsus

Saul was a Jewish man who lived during the early days of the Christian church.

He was a scholar who spent a lot of time studying Jewish religious law. He was very zealous for the Jewish traditions and learned more about the laws than the other men his age.

Saul hated Christians and spent a lot of time persecuting them.  He was present at the time of the stoning of the apostle Stephen, witnessing it and giving his approval of it.

That same day a great religious persecution broke out and Saul went house to house dragging out Christians and throwing them in prison.

He really believed he was doing the right thing and that by destroying Christianity he could protect the Jewish traditions he so dearly loved.

He did so many other violent acts towards Christians on a regular basis that his reputation was known far and wide.

The last time he tried it, he went to the high priest and asked for paperwork to take to the synagogues (Jewish houses of worship) in Damascus. He wanted to gather up any Christians there and take them back to the prison in Jerusalem.

As he neared Damascus a bright light from heaven flashed around him. He fell to the ground.

A voice said, “Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?”

Saul asked who it was.

“I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting. Now get up and go into the city, and I will tell you what you must do.”

Saul got up and immediately realized he was blind.

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Galatians 1:10

In the book of Galatians, the apostle Paul is talking to the believers in the churches of Galatia.

The teachers there were teaching things contrary to the gospel. Paul wrote them to try to correct some of the errors they were learning and practicing.

He also wanted them to know he wasn’t concerned about being popular; he was concerned about the truth.

Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ. ~Galatians 1:10 (NIV)

 

Following Paul’s example in this verse, I see that now that I am a Christian, my focus is to be only on pleasing God, not man. This includes not pleasing me.

It’s not about pleasing self or others, it’s only about pleasing God. Every time. Every situation. Every circumstance. No matter what.

This means setting aside my own life’s agenda and focusing on His will for my life. This is sometimes painful, but always necessary.

If I am still trying to please myself or other people around me instead of putting Christ first, then I am not really His servant; I am the servant of myself and/or those around me. It is who I place my honor and allegiance in that determines whose servant I am.

We cannot serve two masters. If we try to we will love one and hate/despise the other. This is not how it is supposed to be.

We are to choose Christ and Christ alone. We are to deny ourselves, pick up our cross and follow Him.

It’s a daily choice. Who will I serve today? My Savior or myself?

 

For further reading:
You cannot serve two masters Matthew 6:24
Pick up your cross Matthew 16:24
Don’t stray from the truth Galatians 1:6-10

 

 

Galatians 1:6-10

In Galatia some men had started teaching a perverted form of the gospel.

They were mixing Old Testament laws and ways with the grace of Christ and this new way of serving God.  They were telling Christians this was how it was supposed to be. This was causing confusion among the believers.

The apostle Paul addressed this in his letter to them, now called the book of Galatians.

Look at Galatians 1:6-10 via BibleGateway.com

Paul is very clear when he says those teaching a false gospel – which is actually no gospel at all – should be eternally condemned for it.

That’s pretty strong, but it’s a really big deal and the strong response is appropriate.

Teaching their version and/or adding their ideas and twists to it makes it not the gospel. It makes it false and a very dangerous thing because it leads not to salvation but to Hell.

This trickery keeps people from having a real relationship with Christ because instead of serving Him the way the Bible calls them to, they would be doing it the way a man says to. They might end up in hell because they followed this false teaching instead of the truth of who Christ is and how the Bible calls us to worship.

They could also end up teaching it to others, which according to Paul’s statement, means they should be eternally condemned.

Clearly, perverting the gospel by changing it is very dangerous to all involved!

Unfortunately, it didn’t just happen in Paul’s day.

It still happens today.

We have preachers and teachers who teach a false doctrine concerning the gospel. They twist it when they add their thoughts on how it should be done, add conditions to it, or say certain things don’t matter when they do.

There is a way we can protect ourselves.

1- Stay read-up in the Bible. Know what it says for yourself. Don’t rely on others to tell you what it says. Take notes during church, classes, and studies, and then later prayerfully look up the passages and compare them to what you heard. This helps prevent errors in your hearing and errors in their teaching, while reinforcing the learning of the lesson.

2-Filter everything you hear through God’s word. If it doesn’t line up, reject it. Always make God’s word the authority, not man’s word or “enlightened” understanding. Remember- preachers and teachers are only human. They make mistakes, too, both accidentally and intentionally. Compare what they say to what the Word says. In cases of conflict, trust God’s Word, not man’s.

3-Stay Prayed-up. Pray about what you read and hear. Ask God to point out errors. Ask him to lead you in to all truth. Pray for discernment. Ask God to show you and to prick your spirit when wrong words come before you. When this happens, ask Him to show you what the truth is.

4-Pray about what you’ve already learned. Sometimes we’ve already heard/learned wrong things. Sometimes we’ve misunderstood. Prayerfully ask God to show you if your doctrine/knowledge needs adjusted. If it does, prayerfully study up on it and adjust your thinking and beliefs. There is no shame in learning more and better on a subject, especially when it is the truth of God’s word.

Remember, we are responsible for what we learn, teach, and believe. It’s imperative we make sure it is accurate and properly represents/reflects God’s Word.

 

 

Proverbs 20:5

During my quiet time I was reading Proverbs, chapter 20.

Verse 5 really spoke to me:

The purposes of a man’s heart are deep waters,
but a man of understanding draws them out. (NIV)

 

It reminded me of my morning journaling and how I use those pages to take the thoughts and concerns of my heart before the Lord.

Journaling gives me a chance to spread my true feelings and thoughts out and examine them as I seek guidance and wisdom both through prayer and through searching Scriptures for verses that speak to each situation.

The purposes (or motives) of my heart are not always pure.

Sometimes they need adjusted. I need reminded to bring them into alignment with God’s will. I need convicted of, and corrected for, my sinful thoughts and selfish ideas.

The feelings run deep. Deep hurts. Deep fears. Deep imperfections. Deep hungers.

Bringing them out to allow Christ to shine the light of Truth on them means He can show me where to change, what to adjust, where to keep on keeping on.

This helps me to become more like Christ and to be in a better position to serve the Kingdom.

It allows me to become who God has called me to be.

It is this spreading out before the Lord that allows those feelings to be sorted, healed, and dealt with. It allows Him to remind me that He loves me and that He has each situation under control and on track, even when I can’t see Him working.

That’s a great reassurance to me because I know that means God is taking care of me in all these situations and all I have to do is trust Him as He works all things together for good.

He’s a good God and He will take care of those who love Him!

 

What about You?

Do you have a method you use to draw out your heart thoughts so you can bring them into alignment with Christ and with God’s will for your life?

If so, I’d love for you to tell me about it in the comments below.